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TJ Connection - Winter 2002

Wishing You a Happy Holiday Season and a Peaceful and Prosperous New Year!
The Thomas Jefferson District Board and Staff

Table of Contents

Connecting Your Congregation

District President’s Column 

Qiyamah’s Corner 

Ministerial Matters 

Lifespan REmarks 

Field Staff Calendar / Save this Date!

Your Wild(e) Trustees Report 

Chalice Lighter Update/1st Annual NC Choral Festival

A Victory for Poultry Workers in NC!

Mind the Gap

Walking Lightly on the Earth

Rev. Bill Sinkford to Keynote TJD Anti-Racism Conference / TJD Young Adult & Campus Ministry Midwinter Retreat

GLBT Issues / TJ District Fair Share 

Beacon Press / Reflection on FLC / Request for Proposals /A Day of Possibilities 

Open Positions / Visit Northern VA!

Resources for Congregational Leaders

Lay Leadership Development / The Flaming Chalice

District Calendar

GLBT Issues

The Charlotte Observer recently agreed to run same gender announcements. A group of local Baptist ministers met with the publisher to present their objections to the policy because it violates “Christian values.” What a wonderful opportunity for our ministers and lay people to also meet or write to tell how this policy meets UU values.

In Wilmington, the Valley Baptist church fired it’s piano player, a non-church member, because she accepted a job on her off hours to play in a club that included gay people among it’s customers. Has anyone in the area responded to this?

The Charlotte library came under fire from Christian conservatives led by County Commissioner Bill James because a gay author was asked to do a reading from his latest novel at an evening event normally held for adults. He has done this in 25 other cities, but this was the only complaint. The objection was to some of the language used by the author. Local citizens might recall that this same commissioner voted to cut Arts funding in 1997 in reaction to the presentation of the award winning play Angels in America.

Big Brothers Big Sisters is under attack because their national policy includes sexual orientation in it’s anti-discrimination rules. Our members should write the national office telling how our values support their policy.

A Grundy county business man had to cancel his plans for a gay retreat because of 10 death threats and extensive vandalism at the site. He is a long-time resident who thought that there would be more acceptance there.

At a Durham city council meeting discussing health benefits for domestic partners, some of the black members in the audience became enraged. They shouted “Our ancestors weren’t gay” when the speaker said that all discrimination is bad - whether it’s dragging a man behind a truck (James Byrd killing) or tying a young man to a fence and leaving him to
die (Matt Shepard).

Thanks, Frank & Gary
TJD GLBT/Welcoming Congregation Chairs


Thomas Jefferson District Fair Share

The District's Fair Share giving process for the Fiscal Year 2002-2003, which began July 1, 2002, provides funding by congregations for numerous supportive services to the churches in our district. These include the quarterly TJ Connection newsletter, district programming, congregational and leadership assistance from the District Office, and consultations with the District Executive and Healthy Congregations Consulting Team.

We appreciate the tremendous support from member congregations this past fiscal year. Our district's Fair Share reached nearly 81% of our budgeted amount. We are grateful to serve our congregations through the services and programs provided by your generous support, and we are very excited about the many offerings planned this year!

Thomas Jefferson District Fair Share for 2002-2003 (As of Nov. 11, 2002)

  • UUs of Transylvania County, Brevard, NC

  • UU Church of Greenville, NC

  • UU Church of Catawba Valley, Hickory, NC

  • Unitarian Coastal Fellowship, Morehead City, NC

  • UU Fellowship of New Bern, NC

  • UUs of Beaufort, SC

  • Unitarian Fellowship of Hilton Head Island

  • UU Church of Tullahoma, TN

  • UU Community Church of Glen Allen, VA